I was recently invited to participate in a three-day workshop designed around the creation of an “ethical will.” Unfamiliar with the term, I envisioned being informed of various ways to incorporate my moral, ethical and faith-based priorities into the legal documents comprising my estate plan.
Much to my surprise, however, the discussions were not related to finance, tax or property distribution at all. In fact, the traditional components of a “Last Will and Testament” were not even mentioned. Rather, I was given an assignment. I was to spend my time there considering and writing an individual “legacy letter.”
What is a legacy letter you might ask?
A legacy letter is a document intended to record and share your values, faith, beliefs, lessons, hopes, love and forgiveness with family, friends and community. A legacy letter will include meaningful life memories, important life lessons and the messages that we would like to leave behind for our loved ones. For many of us, our legacy letter will reflect our Catholic values. It should tell a story of kindness, generosity and faith.
As I was guided through this process, I quickly learned that it was no simple task. How could I possibly narrow down an entire lifetime in such a manner? What would stand out as most valuable and with whom would I choose to share it?
I followed prompts and scribbled down memories, slowly learning to prioritize the various important life events and lessons of my own journey. I was able to take the time to consider and appreciate the gifts of family, friends and faith. The experience made a truly meaningful impact on my perception of the progression of life: where I have been, where I am today, and most importantly, where I want to be tomorrow.
At the conclusion of the workshop, I was left with more than just a few pieces of paper that represented my personal journey. I was inspired. I am inspired.
I am inspired by the thought that I have the opportunity today, to build my legacy for tomorrow: to live my faith each day and to leave a meaningful impact on my community.
I encourage you to take a moment to imagine what would happen if you were no longer here tomorrow. How might you be remembered? How would you want to be remembered? Would the two stories coincide?
Consider writing your own legacy letter. Know how you would want your family, friends and community to remember you. Live each day in preparation of your legacy. Build upon the foundation of faith that you have been blessed with, and be gracious for where you’ve been, where you will go and the support you receive along the way.